So today I came out publicly. I told my family that I'm pansexual and that I lean towards being gay. I didn't plan to but after being at the pride parade it just happened
After a bit of thinking, I believe I would benefit with some time away from the site. Whilst there are aspects I like of this site, I'm not entirely sure it's what I need right now.
From my perspective, there are things in my life that would benefit from my attention more than logging in here. Again, from my perspective, opportunities to form social contacts...
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I love the ocean. I love being near natural water bodies. For me, they do something to me. I'm relaxed and happy. It's where I go to be happy. In saying that, I only like to go alone.
I've never seen the appeal of the beach as a social outlet. It doesn't interest me being on the beach with a group of others. It takes...
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This week I approached it very different. Cold turkey has it's advantages yes and it's something I plan to try soon. What I did was a week of reflection and putting new things in place. It has it's benefits. It's now me versus my unconscious. What I came to realise is I am unhappy despite the changes I am enacting at the moment.
When the...
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This week I approached it very different. Cold turkey has it's advantages yes and it's something I plan to try soon. What I did was a week of reflection and putting new things in place. It has it's benefits. It's now me versus my unconscious. What I came to realise is I am unhappy despite the changes I am enacting at the moment.
When the...
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So this week had a few slip ups. I knew I would however I am using it as a way to understand where the issues are and correct them. It can sound like a cop out however I am learning why I act the way I do.
The fantasy part comes from low self esteem. For head I never believed I was attractive. I thought...
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Normally, I would never go to a spoken word performance or go to listen to a talk. It was an odd experience. I was concerned with whether I would be engaged. It was a performance that was truly amazing and inspiring.
I'll give a back story to all of this.
I had known of Henry Rollins from his music but was never an outright fan....
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Music has always been curious to me. The theoretical side, the lyrical side and the pure musical side. The emotion it can carry and the way it can make you feel. What it does do is remain the same so you can hear it through different ears. The person I was 10-15 years ago would have experienced a song in a totally different way to...
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So today I am restarting my no masturbation or sexual fantasy/certain sexual images. What I deduced was that I was needing to change my routines and insert positive changes into my life.
The only way to recover is to make change in the place where the previous mindsets and behaviours were. So here's what I did:
I deleted every erotic image off my phone and...
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