So Sunday my girlfriend broke up with me after 4 yrs. I was completely caught off guard, which is weird since I normally can sense and feel things that others can't, especially with her.
I can't pinpoint what caused the break up. We were having such a great morning. I took her out to breakfast at one of our favorite places, we got home played around and she went to the barn to take care of her horse. She came home about 2 hrs later which isn't unusual and was balling her eyes out. I asked her what was wrong and she continued to say she wasn't happy with us and told me she thinks we should end our relationship. I tried talking to her but nothing I did or said revealed any reasons behind the breakup. She then asked me to stay and we fooled around and slept in each others arms. The next day she asked me to leave, so I did..
I am so confused... how do you break up with someone with your eyes full of tears? Wouldn't this mean you are unhappy with the decision to end it? Why would you break up with someone and ask them to stay the night?
What the hell am I to do? Any advice?